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As this blog has started to take on a life of it’s own, I am now offering a consulting service. There are many areas of which  I can help you, from business start ups and ideas to personal or even relationships. As this is a Freedom – Lifestyle – Business blog, the obvious reason for a consultation would be for help in finding your life purpose, your destiny or the mechanics of how to run a business on the internet or from another country. However, please understand that I have been in the consulting and training game for over 20 years now and have a wealth of knowledge and understanding of many subjects now.

I and several friends have enjoyed the freedom lifestyle for over 20 years now and still cannot understand how the majority of people spend their whole lives commuting to jobs that they hate and have all these excuses and reasons in their head of why they cannot change their life… One of my close friends came out to visit me while I was living and working in Thailand in 1992 and before he came he had lived his entire life in the UK in a very safe and secure attitude with zero risk in anything he ever did. He was so impressed with the country and lifestyle that even to this day in 2018 he still has his main home and base in Thailand. However, he is always off on some other trip to a new town, city or country with his laptop under his arm.

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Do things because you WANT to – Not because you feel you are SUPPOSED to.


Now we are all running around with lightweight Ipads and smartphones of which is even easier and the only concern wherever we end up is… where is the nearest WIFI connection to the internet. My friend Andy, I am sure he will not mind me using him as an example started out with me in a Network marketing company and because of the training we received (I will touch more on the training’s etc. later) we had learned the mind set and right thinking to succeed in virtually any kind of business. He started selling silver jewellery (made in Thailand) on ebay and each time we met up his business was getting bigger and bigger with 100’s of listings for various products.

I remember him visiting me for a week at my house in the Philippines and we went to Boracay for a few days (a small tropical holiday island a 40 min flight from Cebu). He was sitting on the beach at a table outside updating all his ebay listings… and emailing his contact who would be mailing out the orders.. Truly a Freedom Lifestyle business. He works a couple of hours a day at most and spends the rest of his time at the Gym, meeting with friends and having an incredibly free life.

ANYONE can change their life and it all starts with how you think…

Change your thinking and your life will also change

I love quotes for the great thinkers of the past and throughout this blog you will find me quoting little snippets of wisdom. They have helped me tremendously in my journey of life and I know for a fact that without my induction to Network marketing back in 1986 with Herbalife International and the small group personal training’s I had from the multi millionaires Mark Hughes, Larry Thompson and the legend Jim Rohn, I would not have achieved anywhere near the level of business success the wealth of experiences I have so far.

Everyday is a new adventure and I always look forward to the future and welcome new experiences …

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Losing your shirt with the online Thai dating sites

After living in Bangkok and Phuket for just over 10 years, I have seen all the internet dating scams and cons used by the girls and you can believe it or not “British, European, Australian and even American guys” pretending to be attractive girls or homely girls.They actually admit “they have to make money somehow”! and some of them find no problem with pretending to be a stunning young Thai girl and getting some unsuspecting guy in the USA or Europe to “fall in love” with “them” and start to part them from their cash!!!

Read on for more of the dirty tricks used by the girls, the guys and ladyboys…

Would you email this beautiful girl?


Well, it’s a Katoey (ladyboy) and even in real life, would not be able to tell the difference until it’s too late!

Online dating is so acceptable now that it is now reported that one out of 8 marriages originate online. Yet there are risks. Because of the easy online anonymity, well over 50% of dating profiles are false and used for cons and scams and rip off crimes done in the name of love!

So you’ve created your profile and then joined a couple of dating sites and the girls are sending you messages of interest and you are scanning the 1000’s of profiles and emailing them back……. With the Asian websites, guys can easily get over 10 girls per day sending you their interest yet in the UK an guy over 40 is lucky to get a few emails a week!

So what is the down side of joining an online dating website?

1. Firstly, Lots of profiles are fake and have either guys or the Nigerian type scammers behind them.

2. You will be spoilt for choice and the girls will be from all over Thailand. I had over 100 replies within a week when I went on one Thai dating website alone. You may think that going out there and visiting them all is an option but to be honest, it’s totally impractical to try to visit several places and see all you’re the potential girls within a few weeks and you would not have the time to see or spend any quality time with all the girls on your short list.

3. People are never the same in the flesh as they look in their photos and their personalities can also be totally different from the emails they have been sending you. Many girls (and guys) use their best photos, usually several years old and they do not look anything like they did when the photos were taken.

4. Virtually all the girls are emailing loads guys at the same time….
They are all looking for the serious guy(s) who will go out and meet them. And unfortunately many of them will marry virtually anyone to escape their present situation.

5. Some of the smarter girls use the internet café as their office and their business is SCAMMING guys into sending them money.

6. Many girls are looking for a cash cow to send them money every month.

7. Virtually ALL Thai people think ALL Foreigners are rich !
and no matter how hard you try, you will not convince them.

8. If you get to the marrying stage, expect to build a new house and get a car for your new Thai spouse and don’t forget you are now the new provider for her family. Failure to do those few things will cause her to “lose face” and that’s worse than anything for a Thai…..


Sorry guys but these two would be wanting to borrow your razor in the morning!


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